How to Be Approachable Without Scaring Off Potential Matches

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Ladies, we know you’re fierce, fabulous, and not to be messed with, but let’s make sure your dating profile doesn’t read like the terms and conditions of a high-risk adventure sport. If you’re broadcasting that you’re the “workplace b***h,” that you “talk back,” and that your opinions are stronger than your morning coffee, you might be sending potential matches running for the hills. And not in a romantic, “chase me” kind of way.

Instead, let’s sprinkle some sugar with that spice. Try something like this: “I’m a strong, independent woman who knows what she wants – and that sometimes includes an extra slice of pizza. I stand up for myself and others, and I love a good debate (especially if it’s about whether pineapple belongs on pizza). If you’re up for matching wits and sharing laughs, swipe right!”

This way, you still convey your strength and independence, but with a touch of humour and warmth. You want potential matches to think, “Wow, she’s got a great sense of humor and isn’t afraid to speak her mind,” rather than, “Wow, am I signing up for a UFC bout?”

Remember, you’re a catch, not a caution sign! Showcase your amazing, multifaceted self in a way that makes them eager to know more, rather than wondering if they need a hard hat. So go ahead, be bold, be brilliant, but don’t forget to let them see the fun side of your fierce fabulousness.

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